Reaching your 60s comes with a special kind of freedom—the kind that lets you throw some stuffy old social rules right out the window. So, let’s look at 12 social norms that a lot of us have happily ditched by the time we hit 60. We’re not trying to disrespect anyone, it’s just that we want to make our lives simpler & more enjoyable. Who doesn’t want that?
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Dressing Up for Every Occasion
Honestly, squeezing into a suit or a fancy dress for every little social gathering is just not the way to go anymore. More of us are realizing that it’s perfectly fine to turn up to most places in something comfy. As long as you feel good, who cares? Comfort over style is way more important when you’re older.
Always Saying “Yes” to Invitations
Once upon a time, we would say “yes” to every event or dinner. But those days are over. Now, we’d rather pick what really matters and that means if a gathering doesn’t spark some joy, we think it’s totally fine to pass. Saying “no” can be freeing and especially when there’s something better, like a cozy night in with a good book.
Abiding by Traditional Gender Roles
More people our age are ditching those old-school roles that dictate who does what in the house or at work based on gender. Instead, we’d rather share our chores and choose careers freely. We do what we’re good at and what we love. Having the freedom to be yourself without sticking to an outdated script is a pleasure that only older people get.
Keeping Up with the Joneses
Chasing after our neighbor’s latest car or their fancy vacation isn’t for us anymore. We’d much rather be happy with what we have because peace of mind & financial stability are way cooler than having the latest shiny thing. Plus, less keeping up with the Joneses means less stress overall. It’s a win-win!
Sticking to Age-Appropriate Hobbies
Who says you can’t start yoga or gaming in your 60s? There’s no rule book saying hobbies have an age limit and that’s why we’d rather have fun with whatever catches our fancy. Be it model trains or mountain biking, we do what we enjoy. Life’s too short not to have some fun—forget about what someone thinks is suitable for your age.
Needing an Elaborate Home
Even though the dream of a big house is nice, in all honesty, cleaning it isn’t. That’s why we’ve chosen smaller & more manageable living spaces that fit our actual needs. More comfort, lower costs and less upkeep—what could be better? It frees up a lot more time and money for more enjoyable stuff.
Maintaining Acquaintances Out of Obligation
We’re not interested in keeping friends just because we’ve known them forever. Instead, we care about the quality of our relationships and not the quantity. We’d rather surround ourselves with people who make us laugh & feel good—not because we feel we have to. After all, there’s too much going on in life to stick with obligatory friendships.
Avoiding New Technology
Rather than avoiding new gadgets & apps, more of us are jumping in to give those shiny gadgets a try. Whether we use them to stay connected with family or manage our health, we understand that technology has a lot to offer. Plus, it keeps you sharp. Why miss out on the good stuff simply because of your age?
Hosting Every Family Holiday
The tradition of always hosting every family gathering can take a toll. As we hit our 60s, many of us are passing the baton for hosting duties to give ourselves a well-deserved break. It also lets others step up & create their holiday magic. You might not realize it but it’s actually pretty fun to simply enjoy the pie without worrying about the oven timer!
Buying Gifts for Every Occasion
Speaking of holidays, gifting for every single occasion is more exhausting than it needs to be, not to mention pretty expensive. As such, many people our age are now giving experiences, like a day out or a homemade dinner, rather than physical gifts. The goal? To make memories instead of clutter.
Answering the Phone Every Time It Rings
Just because the phone rings doesn’t mean we have to answer it. Caller ID is a godsend and if it’s important, they’ll leave a message. We simply pick & choose when to pick up so that we can keep telemarketers (and long-winded neighbors) at bay. After all, having control over your phone means having control over your peace.
Making Everyone Else’s Favorite Food
Those days of slaving away in the kitchen to make dishes everyone else loves but we don’t care for are long gone. The alternative? Cook meals that the cook actually enjoys, too. We’re embracing our tastes and sharing our favorite dishes with our loved ones. If they truly love us, they’ll love our food preferences too!
Disclaimer: This list is solely the author’s opinion based on research and publicly available information.
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