A serious relationship is exciting, but have you ever thought about the warning signs you might be ignoring early on? When you are deeply in love with your partner, it’s sometimes tempting to miss little habits that could become major issues in the future. Maybe you have wondered “Is this normal?” or “Should I worry about this?” Those are the things you should spot before they turn into something that’s difficult to fix. And if you aren’t sure what to watch out for, here are 10 indicators (according to relationship experts) your wife is not the perfect partner for a healthy & happy marriage.
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She’s Not Bothered By Your Feelings
If she sneers at you or doesn’t understand you, that is a bad sign. A good partner will know you and what you’re going through. When she’s putting herself first or shuts you out when you’re mad, it can leave you lonely even when you are together.
She Always Makes It About Her
Is she always returning the conversation back to her or her problems? That’s because she’s way too selfish. You’re married to each other & if she sees herself as the main focus, you might feel like you’re just in the background.
She Twists Things to Her Advantage
If she spins the tales, shame-trips you or plays brain games to get what she wants, that’s a big no-no. Although it doesn’t seem to be a major deal at first – over time, manipulation leaves you stuck under her control.
She Doesn’t Respect You
Respect matters in any relationship. If she insults you, snips you in front of other people, or continually scolds you, that is a clear sign of disrespect. Unless you have respect for one another, it is hard to feel appreciated and valued & this will lead to big problems down the line.
She Never Admits When She’s Got It Wrong
So, if she’s not apologetic, or is unwilling to acknowledge responsibility for her mistakes, then settling disputes is going to be extra tough. A healthy marriage calls for both partners to be able to own up to their mistakes & fix them together.
She’s Obsessed With Material Things
If she is less interested in deep connection and more about buying things, then there’s a problem. Relationships dominated by materialism don’t stand a chance in life’s storms. It’s not how much money you make, but how well you support each other.
She Has Always Had Dramatic Relationships
And if she mentions her relationships from the past & they’re all a lot of drama and violence, it’s probably not a good sign. When this continues, it can indicate that she hasn’t confronted her own personal struggles, which could extend to your marriage.
She Gets Jealous or Controlling Easily
Having a bit of jealousy is OK, but questioning where you are & with whom all the time is not. It exhibits insecurity and distrust, big stumbling blocks in any relationship.
She Doesn’t Take Care of Her Responsibilities
And if she isn’t addressing her life (work, money, personal projects) & tells you to do everything, that’s unbalanced. You know, a healthy marriage means sharing the load, not leaving one person to carry it all.
She Shrugs Off Your Plans & Ideas
If she doesn’t value your goals or tells you they’re insignificant, you’re in trouble. The right wife cheers for you & pushes you towards them even if they aren’t hers. Marital life is all about building each other up, not smashing each other down.
Disclaimer: This list is solely the author’s opinion based on research and publicly available information.
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