People form opinions about you faster than you might think. In some cases, they can even do it in just a few seconds. It’s also not always the big things that make the most impact on their opinion. More often than not, it’s the little things you do (or don’t do) that leave a lasting impression. Here are 12 little things that can influence the way people see you.
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Your tone of voice
You might be saying the right words, but if you come across as grumpy or disinterested, people will notice within seconds. Saying “hi” can even sound rude, depending on the tone you use. How you say something matters just as much as what you say.
How you treat waiters and janitors
How you treat people who can’t “do” anything for you is extremely telling. If you’re nice to your boss and then scream at a service worker over some small grievance, that says a lot about you. Treat people with respect, even when you’re sad or angry.
Whether you’re always late
Accidents can happen, but if you’re always late, people start to wonder if you’re just undependable. There’s also an element of respect here; it shows that you value the other person’s time. Make a point of being on time to show you’re organized and reliable.
Your body language
Slouching, looking away, and crossing your arms makes you seem closed off or anxious. On the other hand, standing up straight and smiling a little makes you appear confident and friendly. People will often notice your body language before your voice.
Your social media posts
Believe it or not, people do look you up on Instagram and LinkedIn. A single strange picture or a lame attempt at humor can instantly form the wrong impression. Once something is out there online, it’s out there forever.
Your handshake or greeting
You can immediately turn someone off by having a limp handshake or some weird or non-existent greeting. A casual “Hey! Nice to meet you” with some eye contact and a smile will do the job.
If you actually listen
Nodding along and asking follow-up questions shows you care about what the other person is saying. Checking your phone or interrupting in the middle of a conversation is a huge turn-off. Be a good listener and you’ll always be more likable.
Your smile
A genuine smile goes a long way. It makes you appear warm, open, and approachable. People feel more comfortable around someone who seems happy to be there.
How you dress
You don’t have to be decked out in designer gear, but looking clean and put together helps. People pay attention to details, even small things like wrinkled shirts or scuffed shoes. Dressing neatly and with care is a sign that you care, even if it’s just casual.
Saying “thank you”
Don’t underestimate the power of a simple “thank you.” Gratitude is something that people are likely to remember. It shows that you saw the effort that someone put in and you appreciated it.
Your posture
Standing or sitting up straight makes you look more alert and in tune with your surroundings. Slouching like a dead man walking can make you seem lazy and make them think that you’re not paying attention to anything.
Little acts of kindness
Opening the door for someone, offering to help out, or just remembering someone’s name may seem small, but it actually does go a long way. People will remember how you made them feel, and small acts of kindness can often show someone’s character.
Disclaimer: This list is solely the author’s opinion based on research and publicly available information.
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