7 Passive-Aggressive Emails You’ve Definitely Received (or Sent)

Email is supposed to be neutral and professional—but sometimes the tone quietly says a lot more than the words on the screen.

1. “Just following up on my previous email…”

This usually means the sender has already waited longer than they wanted to.
It sounds polite, but there’s often a bit of urgency underneath.

2. “As per my last email…”

A classic line that subtly suggests the information was already shared.
It often signals mild frustration without directly saying it.

3. “Per our conversation…”

This one is used to lock in details—but can also feel like a gentle reminder that something was already agreed on.
Tone depends heavily on context, but it can read as firm.

4. “Please advise.”

Short and formal, but sometimes used when someone is clearly waiting for a response.
The lack of warmth can make it feel more pressing than it looks.

5. “For your convenience…”

This phrase is meant to be helpful, but can sometimes come off as slightly pointed.
It’s often used when someone wants to highlight they’ve already done extra work.

6. “As previously mentioned…”

This usually indicates repetition is happening.
It can feel like a polite way of saying “please read carefully this time.”

7. “Friendly reminder…”

On the surface it sounds soft, but it’s often used when deadlines are approaching or missed.
The contrast between “friendly” and “reminder” is what gives it its tone.