Sometimes, it’s not easy for me—or anyone—to tell if someone truly likes us or not. It becomes even harder when they hide their dislike & pretend to enjoy our company. The best thing I’ve learned to do is observe their behavior and small actions closely (they often reveal more than words). Here are 10 ways to know if someone secretly dislikes you, even if they act like they love you on the surface.
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Lack of Eye Contact
When you’re having a conversation, making eye contact helps you connect with each other & shows that you’re attentive. If someone continuously looks around the room (impatiently) or at their phone, it can mean they’re not interested in talking with you or feel uncomfortable around you, which could reflect dislike.
Short Responses
If they respond with quick one-word answers or replies lacking detail, it can imply that they have little interest in forming a real connection with you. They may deliberately shift the conversation away from you or act impatiently during your presence, hinting at their desire to avoid real conversations.
They Don’t Make an Effort to Include You
People might exclude you during planning sessions, storytelling moments, or while sharing inside jokes. When group members do not try to include you or recognize your presence, it shows they do not treat you with the same friendliness they show others.
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They Are Often Unavailable
A person who dislikes you will always find excuses to avoid spending time with you. They might cancel plans at the last minute (saying they’re busy at work) or never try to contact you first. If someone likes you, they will always find even a little time to spend with you, as they enjoy your company more than anything.
Closed Body Language?
Watch how people position their bodies when they are around you. When someone crosses their arms, turns their body away from you, or backs away during a conversation, these actions might mean that they feel uncomfortable around you.
They Criticize You Subtly
Comments such as “I didn’t know you could pull that off” or “You’re doing better than I expected” sound complimentary at first but actually carry a judgmental or superior attitude underneath. This passive-aggressive behavior attacks your confidence while quietly highlighting your imperfections.
Acting Cold or Detached?
When you share exciting news with them, they either give you a blank look or respond with minimal enthusiasm. They might not seem happy in your presence compared to the warmth they display toward others.
They Talk Behind Your Back
They will speak negatively about your actions or comment on things you’ve done whenever they get the chance. When someone talks behind your back like this, it shows that they have no respect for you & aren’t worthy of your company.
They Don’t Support You
If someone shows no interest in supporting you during important or difficult times, it clearly shows that they dislike you. When you share your achievements or big moments, a person who doesn’t care about your success may respond with indifference or criticism. Their refusal to celebrate your wins (or recognize your efforts) shows that they don’t care about you.
Too Competitive?
If someone feels threatened by you or doesn’t like you, they might become overly competitive. They may make mocking comments about your accomplishments or constantly compete with you to show they’re better. This behavior shows jealousy & resentment, revealing their hidden dislike for you.
Disclaimer: This list is solely the author’s opinion based on research and publicly available information.
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