The thrill of meeting someone new can quickly turn awkward when we accidentally say the wrong thing. When meeting someone for the first time, first impressions matter a lot – you should avoid saying certain things. Steering clear of overly personal remarks or comments that unintentionally seem rude – you will make your interactions much smoother. Here are 12 things that you need to avoid saying during your first meeting with someone new.
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“You Look Tired”

You might be trying to be sympathetic with this phrase – but it doesn’t sound nice. Imagine how you would react if someone said this to you. When someone hears “you look tired” they usually interpret it as “You look bad,” which certainly doesn’t help anyone feel good about themselves. If you want to show real concern then ask, “How are you doing?” This approach shows care without focusing on their appearance.
“How Much Money Do You Make?”

Most people view this question as a definite turn-off. When you ask someone about money at the start of a conversation it appears as though you’re invading their personal space or making a judgment about them. This question turns the entire conversation into a business-like exchange which suggests that their value is strictly based on their income level.
“Why Are You Still Single?”

The question appears complimentary on the surface because it suggests they’re so amazing no one could pass them up. But the other person might interpret the question as though you’re singling them out or suggesting they have problems. In fact, relationships are so personal – you should never ask this to someone you met for the first time.
“You Remind Me Of Someone I Don’t Like”

Even if you say this as a joke, it comes across as rude. No one likes being compared to someone who represents negative feelings for another person. A better approach would be to highlight positive similarities by stating something like “Your energy reminds me of my good friend.”
“What’s Wrong With You?”

Even when it’s said in a joking tone, people may interpret it as mean-spirited if they aren’t familiar with your style of humor. This type of remark feels like an attack even though you didn’t intend it as one. Avoid making remarks that could be interpreted as digs until you develop a good rapport.
“Do You Know Who I Am?”

This expression comes across as arrogant no matter how playful you intend it to be. People can interpret this as though you believe you deserve preferential treatment or that you see yourself as superior. Meeting someone who appears to believe they are more important than others become an immediate turn-off for everyone.
“You Should Smile More”

Although this phrase appears to be harmless on the surface it comes across as extremely condescending. You’re giving someone instructions about their emotions or behavior – this is unacceptable. People should not be expected to smile simply to make others comfortable because it shows a lack of understanding and dismisses their real emotions.
“I Don’t Usually Like People Like You”

Your intention may be to compliment them by saying “You’re cool,” but this remark carries a judgmental undertone. This statement means you’ve already placed them into a particular group and now they stand out as not fitting your negative stereotype. Qualifiers in compliments always create a negative impression.
“You’re Not Like Other [Insert Group]”

At first glance this appears to be a compliment – but it shares the same problem as the previous point because it functions as a backhanded compliment. When someone hears comments like “You’re not like other guys” or “You’re not like other women” it makes them feel like you are belittling their entire group. Compliments should never include comparisons to others.
“Are You Really Going To Eat All That?”

The topic of food makes many people uncomfortable because talking about their eating habits can cause them to feel judged. It’s not your place to ask about what or how much someone is eating. When discussing food – keep your comments positive by saying things like “That looks delicious!”
“Let Me Tell You About My Ex”

When people first meet you, they don’t want to hear about previous romantic relationships. Discussing such personal topics tends to make others question your motives for bringing up the subject. Mentioning your ex too early in conversations might suggest you haven’t moved on from them – which creates a bad first impression.
“Do You Always Do That?”

When you draw attention to people’s personal habits like the way they talk, laugh, or walk they become very self-conscious. What you intend as playful or curious could easily be interpreted as critical. Allow people to show their true selves without making them feel scrutinized.
Disclaimer: This list is solely the author’s opinion based on research and publicly available information.
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