Getting stuck with a narcissist can be draining — I have been there. They know how to press you, twist dialogues & make it all about them. You can’t always resist them, but you can keep your sanity. The trick is to keep your mouth shut & use wise words that they can’t abuse you with. You know, there are little words with big punches, that let you make your point and not be pulled into the drama. Now, let’s take a look at 10 such phrases to get a narcissist off your back.
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“That’s Your Opinion, Not a Fact”
Narcissists like to pretend that their views are the whole truth. This line calls them out but not combatively. So for instance, if they tell you: “You’re just too sensitive,” you could say, “That’s your opinion, not facts.” That puts them back in the spotlight & ceases their attempt to label you. It turns the power ratio on their head & makes them realize they don’t own everything.
“I’m Not Going to Argue About This”
A narcissist’s game is to make you get into a fight. They’ll bend your word, drag things out & make you feel like crap. Saying this firmly & turning around blows their sails.
“I Don’t Owe You an Explanation”
Narcissists are great at convincing you that you need to justify yourself. They might make you doubt your choices & make you feel bad. For example, if they ask why you didn’t invite them to something you can reply — “I don’t have to explain myself.” It’s not mean, just an affirmation that you don’t have to answer them or anyone.
“I Am Not Going to Take It That You Talk to Me Like That”
When they’re threatened, narcissists can become pretty aggressive. They will make some insults or jerk-talk at you. This phrase is a firm boundary that tells them their behavior is unacceptable.
“I See Things Differently”
To disagree with a narcissist is almost impossible because they do not like to be pushed. This is a phrase that works because it’s non-threatening. You aren’t saying they’re wrong – you are only expressing yourself.
“That’s Not a Thing I Want to Talk About”
Narcissists often steer conversations into areas they can control although those topics can make you feel uncomfortable. This expression redirects the dialogue or blocks it completely. You don’t have to tell them why, just state firmly where your line is.
“Let’s Agree to Disagree”
Narcissists want to be right every time & fights with them can go on and on. This is a courteous phrase to use to shut down a discussion they can’t seem to let go of. It shows them that you’re not interested in proving them wrong but also aren’t backing down.
“I’m Just Focusing On Me Right Now”
Narcissists make it all about them even when it’s not. This statement makes them know you don’t care about them. For instance, if they ask for your time or attention & you’re too tired already, just say “I’m on myself right now.” It shifts the focus back to your needs & helps you maintain control of your time.
“That’s Not My Responsibility”
A narcissist loves blaming or passing responsibility on to others. And if they are trying to blame you for something that you’re not even responsible for, using this statement might stop them.
“I Need Some Space to Think About This”
Narcissists make snap decisions to benefit themselves. This phrase slows things down & gives you time to process without their influence. So, for instance, if they pressure you into signing something right away, simply reply — “I’d like time to process this.” It gives you a chance to regain control & be safe from making decisions under pressure.
Disclaimer: This list is solely the author’s opinion based on research and publicly available information.
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